(And How to Do It Without Drama)

There’s a reason “unplugged weddings” are all over TikTok and Pinterest in 2025—it’s not just a trend, it’s a movement. Couples are sick of watching their big moments through a screen. They want real connection, real memories, real faces—not phones—in their aisle shots.

If you’re thinking of going unplugged but are worried about pushback, awkward guests or people ignoring the rules—keep reading. I’ll break down why this is a thing and how to do it without drama.

📸 Why Go Unplugged?

1. Your Photographer Will Love You

That perfect aisle shot? It only takes one guest with a phone to ruin it. Unplugged ceremonies mean your photographer can get the real moments.

2. Your Guests Will Actually Be There

Phones pull people out of the moment. When you go unplugged, you’re asking your loved ones to be present—not just spectators, but participants.

3. It Sets the Tone

Starting your wedding with intention (and no phones) tells your guests this is more than just a party. It’s an experience—and you want them in it, not on it.

“But What If People Don’t Listen?”

Let’s be real: some guests will still try to sneak a snap. Here’s how to set firm (but kind) boundaries:

How to Do an Unplugged Wedding Without the Drama

1. Say It Early and Often
Mention it on your invitations, wedding website, and ceremony signage. Repetition = results.

2. Use Clear, Warm Wording
Try something like:
“We invite you to be fully present with us. Please turn off your devices and enjoy this moment tech-free. Our photographer’s got you covered!”

3. Have Your Officiant Announce It
Just before the ceremony starts, your celebrant can kindly remind guests to tuck their phones away.

4. Give Them a Photo Moment Later
Want to avoid FOMO? Let guests know when they can take photos, like during the reception or at a dedicated “photo moment” after the ceremony.

5. Back It Up with Signage
Don’t be shy with your signs! A cute chalkboard or acrylic welcome sign is both stylish and clear.

Pro Tip: Prep Your Inner Circle

Tell your bridal party, parents, and VIP guests ahead of time. That way, they’re on your team if Aunt Karen needs a gentle reminder.

Final Thoughts

An unplugged wedding isn’t about being strict or trendy—it’s about making space for presence. It’s saying, “This moment matters—and we want you in it, fully.”

So if you’re feeling the nudge to ditch the screens, I say go for it. Your photographer (and your future self) will thank you.

💌 Planning an unplugged ceremony but worried about enforcing it? Let’s chat—I'm here to help you create a wedding experience that's unforgettable for the right reasons.