(And How to Do It Gracefully)

There’s a reason more couples are choosing to go unplugged—it’s not just a trend, it’s a thoughtful shift. We’re all craving presence. And when it comes to your ceremony, that means less screen time —and more shared moments, genuine connection, and lasting memories.

If you’re considering an unplugged ceremony but feel unsure about how guests might respond, you’re not alone. The good news? You can absolutely create this kind of atmosphere without feeling awkward or stressed. Here’s how.

📸 Why Go Unplugged?

1. Your Photographer Will Thank You

The aisle moment, the tears, the first look down the aisle—your photographer is ready to capture all of it. But it only takes one guest leaning into the aisle with a phone to block that frame. Going unplugged protects the moments you’ll want to look back on forever.

2. Your Guests Will Be Present

Phones are distracting, often without us realizing it. When you invite your guests to put them away, you’re asking them to participate with their full attention. That’s something most people will welcome.

3. It Creates a Sense of Intentionality

Beginning your wedding day with an unplugged ceremony sends a quiet, respectful message: “This matters. We want you in it with us.” It helps establish a tone of mindfulness from the very first moment.

But What If People Don’t Listen?

It’s a fair question. Some guests may forget or feel tempted to snap a photo. But with the right communication—early, clear, and warm—you’ll set the tone and avoid discomfort.

How to Do an Unplugged Wedding Without the Drama

1. Say It Early
Include a note on your invitations, mention it on your wedding website, and revisit it in your pre-wedding communications. Repetition helps it stick.

2. Use Kind, Clear Language
Consider a message like:
“We invite you to be fully present with us during our ceremony. Kindly turn off all devices and enjoy this moment with us. Our photographer will capture everything beautifully.”

3. Have Your Officiant Reinforce It
Before the ceremony begins, ask your officiant to make a short announcement. A gentle reminder right before you walk down the aisle can go a long way.

4. Offer a Time for Photos Later
To ease any guest hesitation, let them know when they can take photos—whether that’s at the reception or during a dedicated post-ceremony moment.

5. Add Signage
Simple signage near the entrance is a helpful (and stylish) way to remind guests. Acrylic, linen, or wood signage all work beautifully with most aesthetics.

Pro Tip: Prep Your Inner Circle

Let your parents, wedding party, and VIPs know ahead of time. When your closest people are on board, it creates a ripple effect.

Final Thoughts

Choosing an unplugged ceremony isn’t about being strict—it’s about being intentional. It’s a way of saying: this moment matters—and we want to share it with you, fully and completely.

If you’re considering going unplugged and wondering how to make it feel natural and well-received, I’d love to help. From wording to signage to timing, I’ll help you create an experience that’s clear, thoughtful, and truly reflective of what matters most to you.

💌 Planning an unplugged ceremony but worried about enforcing it? Let’s chat—I'm here to help you create a wedding experience that's unforgettable for the right reasons.